How to Beat Procrastination
Tim Urban,/one of the Internet’s most popular writers,/shares his thoughts on a variety of topics/from everyday psychology to artificial intelligence on his blog,/Wait But Why.//
Here he writes a post on his own bad habit/—procrastination.//
I’m just a lifelong procrastinator/who thinks about this topic all the time.//
I’m still in a total battle with my own habits,/but I have made some progress/in the last few years,/and I’m drawing my thoughts/from what’s worked for me.//
To understand why procrastinators procrastinate so much,/let’s start by comparing the non-procrastinator’s brain/with the procrastinator’s brain://
Do you notice anything different?//
It seems the Rational Decision-Maker in the procrastinator’s brain/is coexisting with a pet/—the Instant Gratification Monkey.//
This would be fine/if only the Rational Decision-Maker knew/how to own a monkey.//
But unfortunately,/it wasn’t a part of his training/and he’s left completely helpless/as the monkey makes it impossible for him to do his job.//
The fact is,/the monkey is the last creature/that should be in charge of decisions.//
He thinks only about the present,/trying to maximize the pleasure of the current moment.//
The monkey doesn’t understand the Rational Decision-Maker;/the Rational Decision-Maker doesn’t understand the monkey either.//
Why would we continue jogging,/the monkey thinks,/when we could stop,/which would feel better?//
Why would we practice that instrument/when it’s not fun?//
He thinks humans are insane.//
In the monkey world,/he eats when he is hungry,/sleeps when he is tired,/and doesn’t do anything difficult.//
There’s one thing that scares the monkey.//
It is called the Panic Monster.//
The monster is inactive most of the time,/but he suddenly wakes up/when a deadline gets too close,/or when there’s danger of public embarrassment/or some other scary consequence.//
It freaks the monkey out of the wheel/and the Rational Decision-Maker regains control to finish the task/in the last minute.//
However,/some procrastinators don’t even respond to the monster.//
In the most desperate moments,/they run up the tree with the monkey,/entering a state of shutdown.//
Now,/let’s examine the diagram/which represents the challenge at hand/anytime you take on a task.//
The Critical Entrance/is where you go when you start the task;/the Dark Woods/is where you’re actually doing the work;/and once you finish,/you’re rewarded by ending up in the Happy Playground/—a place where you feel satisfaction/because you got something done.//
You occasionally even enter a state of Flow,/where you’re so immersed in the task/that you lose track of time.//
Sounds pretty simple,/right?//
Unfortunately,/procrastinators tend to miss out on both the Happy Playground and Flow.//
For example,/consider a procrastinator/who couldn’t bring himself to get started.//
He spent hours in the Dark Playground,/one of the monkey’s favorite places,/knowing the deadline was drawing near.//
He was only making his life harder by not starting.//
Eventually,/the deadline got so close,/the Panic Monster suddenly came roaring into the room,/causing him to fly through the task/to hit the deadline.//
After he finishes,/he feels decent/because he accomplished something,/but he’s not that pleased/because he knows he rushed to do it.//
He also feels/he wasted most of his day procrastinating.//
This lands him in Mixed Feelings Park.//
What should you do/to keep this from happening?//
First,/you must make it through the Critical Entrance.//
This means stopping whatever you’re doing/when it’s time to begin the task.//
You put away all distractions and get started.//
This is the hardest part,/because this is where the monkey puts up his fiercest resistance.//
He absolutely hates stopping something fun/to start something hard.//
You need to be the strongest.//
If you can get started/and force the monkey into the Dark Woods,/you’ve broken a bit of his will.//
The Dark Woods is where you’re working.//
It’s not a fun place to be,/and the monkey wants nothing to do with it.//
To make things harder,/the Dark Woods is surrounded by the Dark Playground.//
And the monkey will try as hard as he can/to leave the Dark Woods.//
If you can power through a bit of the Dark Woods,/something funny happens.//
Making progress on a task/produces positive feelings of accomplishment/and raises your self-esteem.//
When you feel a jolt of self-satisfaction,/the monkey finds a High Self-Esteem Banana in his path.//
It doesn’t suppress his resistance entirely,/but it goes a long way toward distracting him/for a while;/you’ll find that the urge to procrastinate has diminished.//
If you continue along,/something magical happens.//
Once you get two-thirds of the way through a task,/you start to feel great about things/and suddenly, the end is in sight.//
This is the Tipping Point.//
The Tipping Point is important/because it’s not just you who can smell the Happy Playground up ahead/—the monkey can smell it too.//
Once you hit the Tipping Point,/the monkey becomes more interested/in getting to the Happy Playground/than the Dark Playground.//
When this happens,/you lose all impulse to procrastinate,/and now both you and the monkey/are speeding toward the finish.//
Before you know it,/you’re done,/and you’re in the Happy Playground.//
One last word of caution:/what makes procrastination so hard to beat/is that the Instant Gratification Monkey has a terribly short-term memory.//
Even if you succeed on Monday,/when you begin a task on Tuesday,/he has forgotten everything/and will again resist entering the Dark Woods.//
And that’s why persistence is such a critical component of success.//
Laying each brick yields an inner struggle.//
But in the end,/your ability to lay brick after brick,/day after day,/is what lies at the core of a procrastinator’s struggle/to gain control over his world.//
So much of what makes people happy or unhappy/—their level of satisfaction,/their self-esteem,/the regrets they carry with them/—is severely affected by procrastination.//
So the time to start improving is now.//
Tim Urban,/
I’m just a lifelong procrastinator/
The fact is,/
Now,/
What should you do/
The Tipping Point is important/